Am I piecing? Just can't tell...

[Sad_but_happy]

SIC, you are doing great! I see that you are detaching and that's good. 5 straight nights make me slightly uneasy. OM may be in the picture. You may need to investigate. Not snoop, but you need to find you. As you probably know, I feel that OM means that you have less chance of getting W back in a reasonable time.

Also, I don't agree with cake eating. Keep working hard and keep your self-respect.



Harrier, thanks for sharing. I agree that panic sets in at the slightest "thought". I still snoop (I know, I know DB'ers) and am working on completely breaking free of it. We have lost trust and thats the reason for snooping. I feel that trust can be restored but not while the W is indifferent towards you. I will be sure that my W loves me when she starts to say it again. Until then, there will always be a question.

Keep detaching! Stay strong! And no matter what happens, in the end WE WIN because WE TRIED!