Punchy, that gives you time to really detach and show her the man you can be. Believe it or not, 3-4 weeks can mean a lot.

If she sees that you are moving on, it will do wonders.

Upbeat and happy at all times. Not over the top happy but happy.

Picture this:
You are alone in an apartment watching your favorit football team lose to the Patriots (can you tell who my favorit team is). You are enjoying a few beers. At half time your beautiful new girl friend comes over with a pizza for the two of you to share. She walks in dressed to the nines, high heels, unreal body with a sex appeal that doesn't quit. She greets you with a big hug and kiss, sits on your lap and REALLY WANTS to be with YOU. Its easy, fun, and relaxing...

Now I know that's not what you want, but if you ACT like that's your life, like you are happy to be alive, and you will be fine no matter what happens, she WILL notice...

It's not easy but it IS necessary. That was my thought each and every day. And you know what? If my wife leaves those thigs WILL happen and life WILL go on and life WILL be great!

And your WAW WILL have regrets. And YOU won't cause you know that you did everything possible to save your family!

Go get 'em Punchy!

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012