That is why I think leaving her alone and GAL, dropping the rope.....learn to be happy with or without her, that's what works in most cases, IMHO. When you let go, you have a better chance of drawing her closer.
I couldn't agree more.
YOU can't change her mind. Only she can change it. If you are pursuing, the more she will run. Stop, let go, and let her wonder why.
Easier said than done, but it works. Listen to Sandi, SHE knows.
