wife preparing to leave me and kids

[MrBond]

Leave her alone. She's struggling to maintain "control". You have to let the OM high die down. Bump up your life and have fun. She's going to start trying to push your buttons to get a reaction from you. Don't give in to it no matter how hard.

If she starts going crazy on you, stop her immediately by telling her that you don't appreciate being talked to in that manner and walk away. YOU maintain the control.