Originally Posted By: InAPickle
Originally Posted By: DaddyLongShanks
InAPickle,

Its not about what they say, its about how they act around you as well, it takes alot of the spirit out of you.

I am glad that you have the amount of fight and self-dignity that you have left.

Whatever you do, ensure it is not a reaction - but planned action.

Spend time with people who want to spend time with you. Do things that you want to do. Handle your personal responsibility.



I do have a life and am having fun with my friends. Not chasing any skirts though, although I do yearn for some "warm" female companionship. This existence is getting old in a hurry.

I am getting to a point where I am ready to drop the rope except of course for the kids broken little hearts and my own welfare, being the man, I'd get royally screwed in D court.

I'll tell you what, If I did ever react emotionally to the hurt she's putting on me, I'd be in jail for battery by now.


Chasing skirts, not necessarily catching it may be just what you need to have some masculine energy reinjected into you. It really works. Right now if that is your only sourc of female companionship, love, etc - then you are looking pitiful to you and yourself if this has been going on for even more than a few months.