In-house Separation...feel lost

[angel61]

Maybe she is just trying to make you suspicious or angry, Bman. She wants you to think she is having an affair so that you could lose it and be the one at fault. I think the WAS does that to make them feel less guilty, give them a reason to leave.

You have been very good, I believe the background in psychology really helps you understand the principles of DB. Keep it up and hang in there. In the book, they always say that when you are feeling angry and frustrated, as all of us do get at times, to do something about it as long as the WAS does not get to see you in that state. I used to get out, drive, cry in the car, talk to myhself, or call a friend.

She sounds like she is having a midlife crisis, or some hormonal imbalance that is making her go a little crazy.