OM got engaged to his girlfriend this weekend. This has changed nothing for my wife, but I wonder if it might in time. She was upset, but not as much as I might have thought.
This also makes me question how much I really knew what I thought I knew...I guess I'll never know how far things went, but she seems less upset than she might be if they had been sleeping together.
We are spending a few days mulling, but she has an offer at a place to lease, and is strongly considering. I feel like this move will be an emotional one for her, that she will regret later. I am also ready to let her go and do it. We are actually very friendly about it right now- though that will probably pass when we start deciding who gets what, etc.
After so much time and so much indecision, I am almost looking forward to the seperation and divorce myself...but I know it will be really hard, and it kills me what it will do to the kids.
Trouble is, I think she feels like moving out isn't the last straw, but I really think it is for me. Maybe I'm just kidding myself.
