Thanks SbH...appreciate the kind words.

I just hope there isn't am OM in my case. The few times I've been dumb enough to say something she been angry and denied that she is involved with anyone.

Regardless, now she seems to want to go out of her way to let me know she's not cheating.

She called me at work today (left message as I don't answer when she calls) to tell me that she's got plans to go out with her cousin tonight. I called back and told her that was fine, and that I was excited to spend another night with kids (due to her working nights and her going out tonight) for the 5th straight night. She said she was disappointed about not getting to put the kids to bed.

I also thought it was a good time to tell her that I'm going out on Friday for my best friends birthday. She said "I figured you were going to say that..."

I think detaching is working. Obviously if we have seperate plans it makes it a lot easier.

Keep up the good attitude!


Me - 34
W - 33
M - 8 years
T - 15 years
D7, D5, D2
Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY"
W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011