I apologized, gave him a brief hug and said " I am sorry, I overreacted. Trust is hard for me right now". He said he was going to call Yahoo to see how to increase security on his phone. Since then we have texted back and forth (medical insurance issues) and all is well again. This is generally what happens. Since its has been a long time since I have had a jealous moment, I was unsure how this would play itself out and if I had done too much damage but it seems he is forgiving.