Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
Something like 70 percent regret the D five years later


Idk how accurate those numbers are but I have no doubt a lot of people regret D after it happens. I know someone who intiated his D, his wife wantd to work things out, he said no, he later married some other broad and is now D'ing. He said he regrets with every fiber of his being that he didn't take his 1st wife up on her offer, taht he destroyed his life and the guilt is unbearable for him. On the flip, I am sure some people are very happy with their Ds. Who knows...?

Originally Posted By: gabbysmom23
I wonder how OW doesn't worry daily that the man she is about to marry did indeed cheat on his pregnant wife, and lie out his ass about it.


Gabby, if she hasn't thought about it now, eventually she will. Contrary to that, I wonder if he ever doubts her knowing that she willingly slept with a married man. Ah yes, two to tango, indeed.

Attheend, I think if WAS' have any regrets, it's knowing they didn't live up to their committment and try to resolve/repair the M, that they walked away. I am sure some come back but I thi nk the # is very small and sometimes the ones who do are met with a former LBS who becomes the one who doesn't want to go thru it all again.


Me: 29
Got a ticket to the D concert