Thx dbmod for this info. I am really wondering where I am in this. My H and I have had NO R talks about any personal issues but talk alot about doing things together, around the house, garden etc with each other. He still occasionally spews venon when drinking heavily (major increase in the last 6 months). He will throw in my face names of 20-30 year old women that he sees. In my earlier posts I mentioned I had no idea when these trysts were taking place as he is constantly texting, IMing, emailing me from his office during the day. At night he is home every single night with me or we are together out doing things. All things we have always done. We sleep in the same bed but no affection at all. He gave me a quick peck on the lips Sunday night cause I cooked a killer dinner. Other than that zero physically. Its been alooooong time since a real kiss, hug has happened. So where the HE*L are we?
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
