SO I backslide a bit this AM. My H recieved a Yahoo IM at 3:30 AM. He said it was a SPAM. I didn't beleive it as I never heard of such a thing on IM. After a smart-a$$ comment by me he insisted on me looking at his phone to see the latest messages. Well he was right, I was wrong. I am upset with myself but also defensive. Being trust is so precarious I almost feel justified. Do I apolozie or just let it go?