It's like she's looking for some excuse that makes her turn to OM. I hope the C will at least get her to own the fact that it was her choice from her own free will. I could write about all the cr@p I had been through, also, but nobody or no thing forced me to have an EA.

The A will end.....no doubt about it. But as you said, so much damage may have been done by then. If she would see that he doesn't want to deal with any serious matters in her life...and realize that he's playing on her fantasy just for one reason.

I did not want to believe what was predicted about my OM, either. But as time went by, little by little, it became more visable.

Will be praying for both of you today.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!