Yes, Sandi. One time I brought up the addiction and explained it just a little. She was not receptive. Took as I thought she was sick or there was something wrong with her.
My W's sitch is such a textbook addiction from my perspective it is ridiculous. I mean the most recent emails between them was that everything has to stay "light" nothing serious because they are tired of all the fighting...and this is over a computer! All the fighting! So they strike things back up over email and 3-4 weeks later are fighting all the time...
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11