Thank you everyone for your encouragement and your positive words...I truly appreciate it. Again and again I marvel at how fortunate I'm to have this support...you are a blessing to me... all of you (((hug all)))
SA - you guessed it...H is back in his tunnel....not a word from him since Friday.
Punkin - I wonder if the OW knows that he spent pretty much the whole Friday with me....I wonder....it's easier for him not to tell her things, or only his version when she is in another town...
CW - (((hugs)))
Glam - thank you for sharing you experiences....I know that everyone is different, but it's still so good to get advice as to what your experience was. Interesting you mentioned the MC and your H's reaction to it. In my case H brought up MC recently again, that we should go...not to work on our R but to "communicate" better...
I did go through the anger stage as well and I too was probably adding to his guilt, just having to talk about business and the financial consequences of our separation...not always in calm manner.
GAG - I'm really confused by H's behavior....when we have such a good time together it feels that he still must have feelings for me, but the again, he has become a skilled lair and he could just be putting on a show and using me just to have me come and see his dad with him, because it would make his dad happy.
Being - Thanks sweetie...didn't regret saying that to him...and I did have a great weekend. My GF came over on Saturday night and we drank wine, ate too much and yapped all night. On Sunday I finally went Xmas shopping....
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