Thank you. I appreciate your good advice. Again, it boild down to patience. Its like starting DB all over again. maybe tis time I can implement the 7 steps better, not just going straight to LRT after goal setting.

H is still angry, but he does talk to me, more about logistical stuff. No hint of softness at all. Some friendliness at times when he relaxes, but otherwise, aloof.

We went shopping, he splurged on a couple of sweaters, even after saying we have no money (really!) Of course I did not buy a thing. He however brought us to lunch at a place he knows I would like.

I don't know if I should act lovingly to him at this point, or be aloof as well, or is it OK to call? Should I still stay away from pursuing? I am guessing yes, as I am not yet sure of his committment.


Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18
Bomb: 6/26/10
EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ???
11/5/11 Retrouvaille
Finally piecing....
Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go