Andylee, That is so promising. Dont expect anything but remember you are a part of that family he is missing. No matter what they say I know that they must miss us and their lives they had. They are confused.
The game went well - we had a few beers and lunch felt like old times. I had one mess up where I brought up our sit and I saw him shut down so according to my coach (we chatted tonight) I just need to be his friend and keep moving on as if we were getting divorced (dont like that). She did say that we should be less available and when they ask us why we arent available then we should tell them 'Until you tell me differently I am moving on with our lives -- making the best for the babies - I love you but I dont agree with your solution to our problems and i have to take some space for myself" so lets see if either of us gets the chance to say this.
Patience - Patience is what my coach reminded me so I am going to try so hard for this - its my life and I love this man.
Do you have family close by for the holidays? Can you get a sitter and go get hair done - change the color or get highlights and a cut. I did before the game and it did for me. I felt refreshed and actually like my new me. Try it --- it did wonders for my self confidence. Make the appointment and pamper yourself.
