Pickle, that's right, you have more to lose. But that's what I was trying to tell you - you don't have to be pressured into putting your foot down!
Looks like your choice right now is open M vs. D.
Guess you just have to take what she is doing with an open mind, stave off the D, let her eat cake for now, be a doormat. Thats all part of DB, but as I said, nothing wrong with that if it will bring you back your W. Fight tose feelings of dropping the rope.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go