Has he always been this way, or is it when he started having what may be a MLC? Did he ever say how he justified keeping that inheritance all to himself? Has he always been into porn? My H was always able to justify in his own mind some of the things he did, but now that he is out of the tunnel, he regrets much of what he did. What is there still that you love about your H? Is he a good F to your S? Does he support you monetarily without your having to ask? Are there moments that you two are united together for an event involving your S, like sports, school awards ceremonies, or the like? If you will not ever speak to him, how can he see any changes in you? I can see how scared you are, and that you don't want to give up; I've been there, and sometimes it still hits me, but I am committed to standing for our M.
