Tank,
I am absolutely amazed at your strength. If you have read any of my posts then you know if I were in your shoes I would have filed for D a long time ago. I am not strong enough to handle your sitch. So I really respect what you are doing.

I agree with JTB, she reached out to YOU!!! And I also agree that she is sharing a bit too much. But she reached out to YOU.

Her current situation is complete chaos. She will realize at some point that life is better without all the noise. And you will be there to turn the volume down.


God never gives more then you and handle.


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012