I honestly don't know what their status is at the moment. He moved out because I caught him breaking NC for the 2nd time since d-day. I know from a source that they hang out together at work all of the time, and he would not confirm or deny that she hangs out at his apartment. Since that blow up 2 weeks ago I have really just stopped trying to find out. I know that you are right it is better not to say anything. I just want the pain to start diminishing and it has been really bad the last few days. I know that healing my marriage, and even just healing myself will take time. I am hoping maybe after the holidays are over I will feel a little bit better.
