Originally Posted By: lostandconfused6
I am having such a hard time with both of these b/c of my son. I am so angry that I feel we took away the life he deserved to have - one with a family together. I am mad that I didn't have any choice in that. When I made the choice to get pregnant I did it with the belief that neither my husband and I thought of divorce as an option. Not even 1 full year into my son's life this affair began. I am scared as to how this will affect his life. I don't know how to see WH twice a week and discuss with him issues pertaining to my son without all of the anger being there.


I have the same feeling, except no anger just shame and disappointment. My wife is a teacher as well as a devout Christian.


M - 42
W - 41
Married 9 years July 24, 2010
WAW moved out 8-9-10
2nd Marriage for Both
S 2
SS 13 from W first Marriage