If you have decided to use dropping the rope principal, then I would suggest you try to think of how you would respond if he was a distant relative or a co-worker. In other words, your emotions would not be the same.
Something I notice a lot in posts by LBS is how they feel they have to check on the child when the other S has them. No offense, but if I suspect that that is an "excuse" for contact, don't you think he might wonder the same? Another thought is that he might not answer your call b/c it is saying you don't trust him to care for your S.
Sandi, I thought about that also, Whenever i have the baby, she always calls the night before or the next morning. But i am the LBS, any insite?
M - 42 W - 41 Married 9 years July 24, 2010 WAW moved out 8-9-10 2nd Marriage for Both S 2 SS 13 from W first Marriage
