Thanks JTB,
I'm a little more grounded.

As humans we need to feel loved and appreciated and valued... And It's just not fair that some of us will need to wait months or years for that.

Sure, GAL is great but it does not fulfill that need/want of being close to a warm body and sharing life and love...

This process has certainly taught me that LOVE, committment, warmth and security is so much more fulfilling then finding OP just for the passion and fun of a new experiance.

I didn't always feel that way...


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012