Ok, I need talking down. My h moved out 4 weeks ago. We have not had any R talk since he moved out. We had one argument about my son possible being around ow, but other than that we don't talk except for my son. He looks depressed, but I know that I am mind reading and could be way off base. Today he came to pick up my son. It was hard b/c my son was so excited to go with him. I know it is his dad, and i don't want him not to be excited I guess, but I hate how he says "go to daddy's house?" and is happy about it. I hate that daddy has a house. Then my h asked me how I wanted to do Christmas. I said I didn't know yet. This really set me off, I hate that we are having to decide how to split our son's day on Christmas. I kept it together until he left and then I cried for a long time. I want to ask him again if he is sure this is what he wants to do. He does not seem happy, and I know that I am not. I know I should not ask him, but how will he know the possibility is still there if I don't? Again, I know I should not do this...please just help me remember why so I can talk myself out of it.
