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And if so please let me know what would make the WAS go back and work on the marriage? What would be their motivation?

i'd like to know this too. i don't think this is moral question.

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I'm just not willing to WAIT for my W to get sick of having sex with OM and then be grateful that they returned.

IM better then that and deserve more.

i agree with this. you have to stand up for yourself. you didn't run off like a coward to find OP to have your needs met. you need to see the value in yourself.

i'm all for marriages but not the point where your dignity and self-respect gets whittled down to nothing.

good questions.

D4MIL