OM will not make promise that he will be there for her but that he is there to listen and talk...but he won't tell her that he will wait around for her and he won't even discuss if he will see other women...says he is moving on with his life and if she is there in another 12-18 months and he is still there well then maybe they can have that dream life together
OMG, this is so much like what I was told......but I think in my case, I was not told so crudly. She is in for a world of hurt. He is drawing her a picture and she refuses to see it. He knows how to play this game. I'd dare say that she isn't the only woman he has dangling.
You know why she's saying that it would be easier if you left, don't you? That way, she can tell those close to her that "you" left the M. Stay strong. I believe you know where and when to be strong as steel....and soft as velvet.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
