Okay, you got it off your chest....until the next time you feel the urge. I think you will discover that it will not draw her back one inch closer by sending her these types of messages.

If it has not been deleted, you should read Coach's old threads and see what drew Greek back to the M.

A WAW needs to see strength in her LBH. If she sees any neediness in him, she will chew him up and spit him out. She is not turned on by clinginess and desparation. What she will notice is a man who is moving forward in his life and that he is not stopping and waiting on her decision about him. She doesn't see a man who is depressed, but one who is decisive and making the most of his life--and having a PMA while he does it.

So......do you think that is the man she saw in your email?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!