I don't know what glued her pieces back together other than gaining some internal strenght.

OM will not agree to help her out financially. In fact, I have seen him use words that he cannot compete with my bank account.

OM will not make promise that he will be there for her but that he is there to listen and talk...but he won't tell her that he will wait around for her and he won't even discuss if he will see other women...says he is moving on with his life and if she is there in another 12-18 months and he is still there well then maybe they can have that dream life together

I have NOT agreed to helping out with finances. Not at all.


M39 W41
Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11