Need help with what to try next...

[Long_Way_To_Go]

My H has returned from his trip to see the OW and called me to tell me he was home. He asked me if I wanted to see him and talk. I didn't answer, just asked him if he wanted to talk and he said he did, just needed time to recuperate from his trip. I told him to give me a call when he has recuperated. He asked if I had plans for my birthday and I said I already did (didn't give him any details). I haven't heard from him since (over a week). I finally called him last night and left a brief message just saying that we hadn't talked in a while and wanted to see how he was doing. This morning I get an email from him just saying "I got your message. How are you?"

I don't know what to do with this. I hate feeling like my husband is a stranger to me. Before he left on his trip he said he wanted a divorce. I guess I wanted to see him to try to gauge if his still on that path since it's been over a month since we've seen each other.

Any thoughts would be helpful.