Tell me, what is your exact situation now? Your H is living with his M? Is ow living there also? Is ow still married to her H? How much contact do you have with your H? Are there ever any opportunities for the two of you to connect without your getting angry? For you to show a sweeter side to him? I am not suggesting you change your personality, but I am suggesting you read in the Bible on how a W is supposed to treat her H, even when H is doing wrong. You still love H, don't you? I put up with crap that I said I never would put up with in a H, because I had by the time he had an A, or EA, become a Christian, and I tried to let God take over, and show me how to behave. Even now, I don't bring up the A. If your H does want to come back to you, then make it possible for him to be comfortable with you. We have some things in common, we have been married quite awhile, we both have one child, a son, yours is about two yrs younger than mine, we both believe God can help. You have had some very good sources for help, but putting them into practice seems to be beyond you. But, try again, really try, and let H see the difference in you. Christmas is a good time to do this.
