Hang in there buddy. I am feeling pretty hopeless myself, but I am determined dammit! What have we got left to lose? Just GAL, do 180s, LRT, leave it all out there. In the very end, you can look in the mirror and know that you did everything that you could.
M42 W38 D5D7 M8 Living as 'roomates' since 9-12-10 Moved out 1-7-11 FIL threatened to kill me 1-20-11
im just venting but w wife friend told her what she was doing in stupid and that she needed to file or work our problems out. the friend said my w agreed. but dont know which way she was leaning
Tell us more about this conversation with your wife's friend.
All of it and include how you came to be talking to this friend, what your objectives were in talking to this friend, what you told this friend, and so on.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
My wife friend and her went to Atlanta for the weekend shopping for her friends wedding. The friend just told me that she talked to my w about us and that my wife wasn't real responsive and said this is a girls weekend and that she wanted to spend it catching up on things with her old friend and did feel like worrying or talking about me and her. The friend told her that what she was doing is stupid and that i love her very much and that our son was upset about the whole thing. She also told her that what she was doing isn't fair and that she either needed to file or we need to get back together and work out our problems. My w responded saying she knew that. The friend said she thinks my wife is confused and isn't the same person she knew from a year ago. The friend said she did most of the talking about us and that she ask my w what she was going to do and my w responded saying she didn't know. The friend said she believes my wife loves me but just isn't happy.
She just text me and told me this i had no objective just listened to she where i may stand at this point
