I think Dbmod is saying that you handled it well, that the way you handling might have added in your H being in a better mood. At the same time he is saying that if you had acted differently (ie. frustrated or confrontational) you H may have acted differently towards you.
Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011