I know OM doesn't live close, so by "running into his arms",I meant emotionally. If he wants her bad enough.....shouldn't he be willing to help with her expenses? This is what she needs to see for herself. When all the games are over and OM is looking at what he'll really be facing, how much will he want her then?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!