needs to figure out what is wrong and why she has always been this way, thinks back to all our her boyfriends and never had an emotional connection with anyone she has ever been
Do you think that is the problem? Did she have trouble connecting with you in the beginning?
This is what stands out to me; she tries to detour around the issue of A/OM and talk as if there is some other emotional problem with her. Maybe there is, but if so....would you have not seen it before OM came on the scene?
Listen GW, I think I know how she's feeling. I felt like I was "cracking" too. But she has to make that decision to end it with OM and no going back. If she calls off the A just long enough to see if things will work out with you...then rest assured, she'll keep OM waiting in the wings.
I'm wondereing why she hasn't contacted him. Isn't this what he wanted? Now she's free.....what's keeping her from running into his arm? Doesn't add up.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
