Son had the laptop all day yesterday working on a school report, I just read your posts and cannot thank you enough for the input. I have to take son to school and then be in court at 9:00am, I will post more on my return.
I will approach H for more contact. I will approach H for more discussion.
I think my H is initiating more contact and it's more valuable in the way that he asks of me and my goings on and remembers what I have actually said weeks later. This is a huge development.
I think given certain contact H will be more receptive to talking as he is very comfortable in my presence.
I am going to put off any decisions today, you both validated my exact thoughts. H basically said to do whatever I want. It's actually another huge development. I hope this goes well
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11