Hello GAG and Albuquerque,

Thank you both for the posts. You are spot on....

Son had the laptop all day yesterday working on a school report, I just read your posts and cannot thank you enough for the input.
I have to take son to school and then be in court at 9:00am, I will post more on my return.

I will approach H for more contact. I will approach H for more discussion.

I think my H is initiating more contact and it's more valuable in the way that he asks of me and my goings on and remembers what I have actually said weeks later. This is a huge development.

I think given certain contact H will be more receptive to talking as he is very comfortable in my presence.

I am going to put off any decisions today, you both validated my exact thoughts. H basically said to do whatever I want. It's actually another huge development. I hope this goes well smirk

Sanderika


ME48/H48MLC
T 33y
M 28y
S16
OW 8/7/05
Bomb 8/16/05
Sep 9/05
H f'd D 10/3/08
D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09
D dismissed 2/5/10
H served me D papers again 9/4/10
D dismissed 9/26/11