Oh and a small thing that gave me pleasure- I asked exH if he would be fine with alternating New Year's. This year I would have S and he could have him next year, etc.

He said "Sounds fine by me. So are you going to __ this year?" I am not but I only said "oh, we'll do something..."

haha! Not his right to know! I remember when a goal of mine was to get him to ask me about my plans. Now I think "screw you."

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004