my h and son gave me necklace

[rysmom]

i am feeling very sad. I think h and other woman are getting closer than ever, living together. I think what i did the first time he left worked better because i was talking to him often and calling and ruining there fun together and he came home for 2 yrs.. I feel by leaving them alone they are just having a great life together and she is really getting her hooks in him.
I dont have any support system right now either except my counselor. my tennis friend never calls, my sister is busy with her new boyfriend, my mother and i arent speaking. I feel very alone. I went to the monastery last night for a service that i really enjoyed.

[dbmod]

I'm glad you found some comfort at the service.

What does Laurie suggest?

[MrBond]

rysmom,

This is almost the same post you've been putting up since you've been here. Get some help. Besides that counselor, maybe you should see a specialist. Do you have other friends aside from your tennis one?

Go out and have fun with your son. Start living. I don't know what it's going to take to get through to you. Do you really like being miserable for 3 years?

[rysmom]

h is planning a trip to FL this really hurts me. That is where we use to go as a family

[rysmom]

with ow

[rysmom]

son and I went out today to lunch and shopping. Yesterday we got xmas tree and put lights on it today. It is a very nice tree, it was the first one we looked at and exactly what we wanted, that was a nice gift I was grateful for it.

[rysmom]

i think hes going to FL with ow

[verycrazy]

I'm sorry your H and ow are doing stuff y'all used to do together. How is your MIL now? Is there any chance you can make amends with her? Part of what I have done with my H is to make an effort to be more a part of his parents lives.

[verycrazy]

Oh, and my H wanted more attention from me, that was part of our problem.

[rysmom]

are you back with h is there ow? some days i do really well but somedays r very bad if i find out what they r doing