Life with H is still improving. I have made room in the bedroom again for his clothes should he choose to move them back in to the house. He's been leaving things a little at a time, so I figured it was time to make room. No announcement, no shouting from the top of the mountain, just action at the pace of a snail.
H joined me for family activites this weekend. I had a brief flashback of 7 years ago when he blew up about nothing and left in the middle of the night, and I was such a wreck for this family day. But ya know what? only 1 person noticed anything at all, so maybe I was only a wreck on the inside.
The other evening H and I sat and talked about nothing and anything, the tv was off, the computers were off, just us talking. Years ago a poster here told me to do that, and it has taken me this long to take that advice and feel comfortable that it would be okay.
I am still learning and feeling out how to help and support without being controling or emasculating. Wow that's hard for me!
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
