With all due respect dbmod, Sinclair is not in LRT because a firm boundary has not been enforced.

We ALL want our marriages to work. But it is absolutely crazy to think that one should continue acting "as if" when your spouse is having relations with another.

Maybe I'm to much of a traditionalist but my W can't see me and OM.

She can however CHOOSE to stop seeing OM and work on our marriage.

If that's too much to ask of W then so be it...

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012