Marriage is about two people being in a committed R. Always remember that you can only change you. Relationships take work and now you are willing to work. Reconciliation can take time. (years if you read some stories here) Proceed slowly I know that you can achieve your goals. (with hard work) A wise man knows his limits. GAL Engage what is working and not what doesn't.
Remember that you are your #1 advocate.
Originally Posted By: williaij
Always remember that you can only change you.
Originally Posted By: dbmod
You can change other people's behaviors by changing your behavior.
I see it differently. You can change your behavior. They can still choose OP or they can choose Sinclair.
Originally Posted By: williaij
Relationships take work and now you are willing to work. Reconciliation can take time. (years if you read some stories here) Proceed slowly.
Originally Posted By: dbmod
Absolutely. If he's proceeding slowly, there's no reason not to date her and lose all the ground he's gained.
I believe that you said that there are no absolutes.
Originally Posted By: dbmod
You have to be careful about absolute statements because what works for one marriage doesn't work for another.
End of clarification.
You are still in my thoughts.
Will
"The first step in the acquisition of wisdom is silence, the second listening, the third memory, the fourth practice, the fifth teaching others." Solomon Ibn Gabriol
