Always remember that you can only change you. Relationships take work and now you are willing to work. Reconciliation can take time. (years if you read some stories here) Proceed slowly I know that you can achieve your goals. (with hard work)
Always remember that you can only change you. You can change other people's behaviors by changing your behavior.
Relationships take work and now you are willing to work. Reconciliation can take time. (years if you read some stories here) Proceed slowly.Absolutely. If he's proceeding slowly, there's no reason not to date her and lose all the ground he's gained. If you missed the ground he gained--go back and read his previous threads--I noted it. If you want to achieve your goal it's extremely important to note when you've achieved baby steps along the way.
And that's the piece that folks are missing here--you cannot expect the whole ball of wax at once in most situations. You build the baby steps. Sinclair has attracted his wife back. Make no mistake his wife wants to be dated--and he has a chance to woo her a bit--give her the appetizer, by doing so.
Should someone rengate at full steam ahead when their partner is having an affair--probably not. You have to be careful about absolute statements because what works for one marriage doesn't work for another.
