Thanks guys, I really appreciate the support. I'm starting to try to imagine/plan my life without her. As much as I want to be with her, I just don't see her coming around. I hope I'm wrong, but I have to start living for me and not thinking about her anymore. I think I might try to stay at a friends place this week. A little space might do us some good.

I want to tell her that I can't live like this. That I just can't put up with the way she treats anymore. I deserve more than that and I want to be happy.

Is that too much? Should I leave all that out and just say we need some space. I want to show her that I'm taking a stand, but at the same time, I don't want to piss her off and cause her to rebel.

M:28
W:28
Together:13yrs
high school sweethearts
Married:2
currently filing
living separately