I look at it like this. Would I really let any "friend" treat me with such little regard? Heck no. Why should it be different here? She is not even treating you like a friend. You are just using that label (maybe she suggested it) with no real meaning. I'd tell her that she is not your friend and wont be. I know it's easy for me to say though.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
