I asked for a couple of years at least to try to work on our marriage. I said counseling, a marriage program together (thinking of retrouvaille). I said best for D11, finances for us to live together. He can fo whatever except have anothe woman, either emotionally or physically. That will signal the end of our relationship.
I said if he needed space, alone time , etc. I will understand.
He tried to ask me for a couple of times where he can see OW to reassure her of his friendship, I said no, that was not acceptable as that was a nurturing of his emotional attachment to her.
He accepted what I said, but in an angry manner. I know he probably feels angry and manipulated.
What do I do now?
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
