N, I don't have to ask how you are doing...you've said it all...I'm very happy for you! Take things slowly and see how this relationship plays out. Does he like your dog? How are your parents doing?
I don't think your xh and his so called wife are happy at all. Rubbing things in your face isn't very mature, if you ask me....
Have a wonderful holiday season and may the new year be full of happiness and peace for you!
Merry Christmas!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.