Ok so I'm reading this DR book. I like alot of what I'm reading, but one thing is driving me crazy. I keep reading about finding out what your doing wrong, finding what "works", etc. How much do I need to change? I've changed a ton already and it just never mattered... In fact it helped to make me look weaker and drive W away in my opinion. Maybe I'm confused at the moment... Idk. Here's how I feel... She has not changed crap! NOTHING! 3 years... She never changed a drop... She treats me like I wronged her still to this very day! I changed for her... I tried to spice things up... Go out more... Compromise more... Love more... Listen... Help... It basically got to the point where I did everything as she treated me worse and worse and demanded more and more. Where's the section about the guy who did his best... Gave his all... Changed and changed until he lost himself... For a W who I swear has gone CRAZY! just frustrated today
Here's how I feel... She has not changed crap! NOTHING! 3 years... She never changed a drop... She treats me like I wronged her still to this very day! I changed for her... I tried to spice things up... Go out more... Compromise more... Love more... Listen... Help... It basically got to the point where I did everything as she treated me worse and worse and demanded more and more. Where's the section about the guy who did his best... Gave his all... Changed and changed until he lost himself... For a W who I swear has gone CRAZY! just frustrated today