Moving Forward

[gutwrenching]

Sorry, been a crazy 24 hours cause I took the tough love approach. Lots that I could post, but no time right now. Short version, is I gave her an all in or all out, need a decision now. I took a while and a lot of debate but she said out because there was too much damage done and too much guilt when she looks at me. So I said start looking for somewhere to live in the morning.

Today was rough and she did find 8 places to look at...but now is starting to crack so we'll see. It is the girls and the fact that she is now realizing and admitting she needs professional help but won't be able to afford it on her own.

I calmly stated that she wasn't listening last night. I said end the A with OM and then we can talk about anything and what it will take to move forward or even tread water while you get help...but the A has to end.

That is the very short version.