So sorry you are going through this but you found a great place for support! I see you also started another thread. It works better for people to find you here if you keep to one thread!
The weekends are kinda slow around here so hang tight...more will be along soon to help!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing