No it means, if you are a 'fix it' person--or the person who is always doing everything, just stop. Do Nothing. Drop the rope.

There is a balance in relationships, and if you are always doing everything, then your spouse doesn't have to do anything.

For example, with kids, if you are always the nice parent, then your spouse always has to be the mean parent. Just swap. It's a version of the 180.

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